The Problem
It's that empty feeling after you get home from a date
... that wasn't that fulfilling. Again.
The pit in your stomach that tells you there's more to life.
That you came here to live more fully than this.
However it came to be - our culture is almost completely backwards when it comes to sex. Almost every piece of information available is useless if not harmful.
Sexual repression fuels suffering inside our self, with lovers, even affecting our relationships with family and friends. It also fuels a lack of abundance in finance, career, and creative mission in the world.
Thankfully, there’s more to the story.
You are capable of pleasure.
You deserve pleasure.
You get to feel sexy, liberated, and luminous.
You get to feel more powerful.
You get to actually be more powerful.
You get to feel like you’re an inch taller when you walk into a room.
... And notice yourself tossing your head back in laughter just a little more often. 😎
You get to complete your most glorious mission in this lifetime ... ecstatically.
What is The Keystone?
The Keystone is a seven-month private training program with me, River Roaring.
For seven months, you will have an experienced and dedicated personal guide.
Right by your side.
It’s essential to gift yourself with a lot of space
to unwind your life's tightest knots.
You and I will have lots of wonderful in-person time together and we will have a private line of communication so you have access to almost unlimited guidance.
We will start exactly where you are now and fly toward your most fabulous dreams.
You will have an opportunity to do some of the most profound personal work of your life.
To open back up.
To harmonize your mind and body.
You will become the next evolution of yourself by practicing new skills.
Not simply by taking in more information.
You will be invited into touch experiences that are unlike anything you have experienced before.
Because touch can serve to unbind stuck energy.
Especially touch that comes from a place of love, and a truly open-hearted willingness to be with you just as you are.
Each experience builds on the last.
Lots of practice.
Lots of fun things to try at home.
So you can function with joy and ease in your body, and relish the experiences you choose to create from this powerful place.
It's unlike anything else.
It’s easy to find healing modalities.
It’s hard to find one that specializes in sexual energy.
And when you find sexual healing,
It’s hard to find someone who will help you actually retrain your body through touch.
And when you find someone who will help you retrain your body sexually,
It’s hard to find someone who will hold the entire container as sacred.
And when you finally find all of that …
It’s still hard to find someone who has the training and experience to
start exactly where you are and keep it gentle and relaxed, and at the same time
expand with you no matter how high you want to fly.
… All with someone who you like! 😉
Is this for you?
This is for you if you feel a deep hunger to rise into the highest version of yourself in all areas of your life, including your sexuality.
My most successful clients place a high value on their own integrity,
their spiritual path, and pursuing their purpose or mission in life.
They believe they are here to be the best person they can be.
They’re ready to prioritize their own life force.
Claim sovereignty over their potent sexual energy.
They’re ready to take bold steps into the unknown
in order to enter spaces that have been so far inaccessible.
Many of my clients have already tried things like:
- endless hours of porn and podcasts, books, meditations and sound baths.
- years of therapy - sometimes even years of inpatient treatment.
- investing in various pills, pumps, potions, and procedures.
- tantra festivals, swinger clubs, and play parties.
Yet they know there is more.
If you yearn to master the art of cultivating and directing your sexual energy in service of your highest purpose in life,
Let’s talk.
I’m looking for someone who’s all in.
Someone who will give this their all,
because that's what I plan to do.
No matter where you’ve been so far
or where you are now,
What matters is that...
You know it’s your time.
And you are ready to rise.
What you'll receive
I will bring all of my training and experience forward to co-create a highly customized training program with you.
Here's how we'll work together over the next seven months:
- We are guided by desire, using dreaming and visioning to set our course.
- As you take steps toward your dream life internally and externally, you learn powerful new concepts.
- You gently yet powerfully retrain your body as you practice your new skills with me, and in the world, cultivating healthy relating in real time.
- As tapping into your deeper desires becomes second nature, your deepest desires start to guide all aspects of your life.
We will spend a lot of time together in-person in my beautiful downtown Austin temple.
Generous two-hour-long sessions on most weeks if your schedule permits.
If you will be traveling into town, or you are otherwise unable to meet weekly, we'll schedule a series of multi-day retreats that will give us just as much time to relax and learn together in person.
We will have an open and private line of communication.
So that you have plenty of support between our in-person sessions.
I will listen, guide, and reflect with you on a daily basis.
Typically 1 or 2 days a week I don’t look at screens, so 5-6 days a week I’m right there with you cheering you on throughout our glorious seven months together.
Why seven months?
My greatest joy in service is that I’ve had the opportunity to witness so many deep and meaningful lifelong transformations. One incredible transformation after another.
In the 13 years I've been practicing, I’ve noticed that this level of change takes a certain amount of time.
This is actually a very short amount of time when compared to many other treatment styles.
I find that a seven month container gives most folks enough space to relax, learn powerful new concepts, practice them … stumble and fall the necessary amount of times for learning … and get back on the horse even more confident than before.
Some folks have chosen to work together longer than seven months. Whether it’s a complex trauma history, strict spiritual upbringing, a special learning style or ability, or just a desire to continue cultivating, some people prefer to extend the program.
In other words, I've found that for this work human beings need space to learn, practice, notice the rough spots, learn and practice more, repeat... for this deep learning to take root and create lasting empowerment in their lives.
I created this seven-month container to give you space and support
to accomplish some of your life's deepest work and set flight toward your dream life.
Who is River Roaring?
My own sexual and spiritual awakening in 2006 changed my life. I realized the sexual fantasy I’d had all of my adult life, but never revealed to anyone, could actually come true in real life ... safely. I entered the kink scene in Austin - following my fantasy world ethically and joyfully in the real world.
Which lead to two decades of intense sexual and spiritual play, experimentation, and learning. As most of my sexual fantasies came true I realized something important - I am no longer interested in doing anything that isn’t THRILLING!

Things I was learning in the bedroom were teaching me lessons for life. How to dream. How to make them come true. How to connect lovingly with fellow humans. How to keep life exciting and fun. How to conduct myself in intense situations.
My spiritual life was flourishing as I became initiated into the Toltec Nation, kundalini tantra, the Tao, and other powerful spiritual and multi-dimensional realms. Which I could feel inside my body.
I was in a 2011 ritual when I became aware of my purpose - to be a sexual healer. This led me to innumerable kink and sexual trainings, and certifications in Surrogate Partner Therapy, Wheel of Consent facilitation, Conscious Uncoupling coaching, Tantra, and Tao instruction.
My life path now aligns with my dreams. Ten years ago, I closed my Law Office after over two decades as a trial attorney and lobbyist to follow my passion. I no longer modify myself to fit in with the outside world that often. Now I modify the outside world to fit around my desire. My dreams. My fantasies.
... and my sexual energy cultivation is alive and well. It’s fuel for my ecstatic life.
And, my friend, I hope it’ll be your fuel as well. ✨
Your Investment
The true price of this program is your pain and suffering as you will be invited to give most of that up forever. To set it aside in favor of something more enjoyable.
In dollars, the program investment is $21,000 due in 4 equal installments. This price reflects how much time I plan to invest in your epic adventure. Most of my clients have never imagined being held in a container this solid.
I have space for one new Keystone in 2025!
I'm ready to begin in September. The next opportunity to begin this training with me will be in January 2026. If you miss this 2025 opening, let’s talk now about starting in January. ... So we have something to look forward to all through the holidays.
If you are hearing the call to this epic journey, don't send any money now.
Just click the button and let’s set up a phone call to see what's possible!
Guarantee
Our relationship is totally confidential. As an attorney for over two decades, I became an expert at confidentiality. Everything that happens between us stays between us. You may disclose anything to anyone. I will not.
You will be my priority throughout our seven month container. I will match your effort and commitment. I'll fly by your side as far and as high as you want to fly toward your dreams.
I will bring my highest self and best effort to our relationship. I want to give you the support you need to live as fully into your most fabulous future as humanly possible in this lifetime.
If you’re ready to make yourself your top priority for seven months ...
I am too.
Every ecosystem has a species
that plays a central defining role.
Just as other stones depend on the keystone -
the wedge-shaped stone at the top of an arch,other species in a community
depend on the keystoneto maintain the community’s
structure and provide critical resources.
When a keystone is liberated,
the whole ecosystem is liberated.
Are you ready to liberate yourself
and your ecosystem?
"I dreamt bigger… way bigger than I thought I could achieve this lifetime. And suddenly doors opened where I can see a clear path emerging that could get me there. Literally went from blind and hopeful to now I have a map and compass and sort of amazed how quickly it happened."
"You've been healing me with unconditional encouraging love I never had growing up or as an adult. You're teaching me how to be an effective lover. But most importantly, you're teaching me how to be a strong, decisive man … and I so love you for it.”