Is this for me?
This page will help you decide whether the surrogate partner program might benefit you.
What’s this all about?
What is a surrogate partner? Begin by reviewing these resources! Use the buttons below to visit the surrogate partner program page, and the surrogate partner resource library. Then return to this page to explore whether the program is a fit for you.
What are the keys to success?
The surrogate partner process gives you an opportunity to become a master of love, sex and intimacy in your future relationships. The keys to success are being open to change, learning to listen to your body, and taking action in your life outside of our appointments.
Are you willing to change? If you’re not ready to change, this program is not for you. Most people who go through the program are surprised at the level of change they make in their lives.
Are you willing to listen to your body? If you’re not willing to learn how to listen to your body, this program is not for you. When your body becomes overwhelmed it shuts down. Intimacy and pleasure are maximized in a relaxed environment. Once you open to this process, you will be able to feel relaxed bliss with self and others.
Are you willing to do home practices? If you’re not willing to practice what you learn at home, there is no use investing in this program. You are training for real life. And the only person who can change your real life is you. So your real progress will occur outside of our time together. If you practice what you learn often, the change you are seeking will come quickly.
Wait a minute, this might be for me
Do you have a partner? The surrogate partner program is for those who do not have a partner. If you have a spouse, live with your partner, or otherwise have a sexual partner, the program was not designed for you. The idea is that you already have a practice partner. If you feel drawn to this program but have a partner, you might be interested in my coaching programs and/or small group workshops.
Are you working with a therapist? In the surrogate partner program you work with a therapist and a surrogate partner throughout the program. This provides added support for you through this challenging program. If you feel drawn to this program but are not working with a therapist now, feel free to contact me for a referral.
Start the process here
The first step is to work with your therapist. The surrogate partner program is for those who want to work with a therapist and a surrogate partner at the same time. This program can be intense and you will benefit from the added support. If you feel drawn to this program but are not working with a therapist now, you may contact me for a referral.
Your therapist will discuss the process with you and help you decide if the program is right for you.
The second step, if your therapist refers you to the program, is for your therapist to contact me to set up your collaboration plan. Your therapist and I must agree to collaborate throughout the process.
The third step is for you and I to see if we agree to work together. Now that your therapist has referred you, we get to meet. I’m excited about getting to know you. Review the rest of this page for lots of details.